What I never really understood is, why can't she have both? If its her dream, why is it so dificult to realize Cinderela stories CAN happen in real life? I mean, they even say that Cinderela's love was artificial, cuz the Prince only saw her once, and that Noah is supposed to be the true love in The Notebook, and that Jake was Melanie's first and last love in Sweet Home Alabama, and that the poor writter full of soul has the love of Nicole's Kidman' dream......... I mean, seriously?
So you've got that one true love in your old town, and you keep thinking, no matter how good the new guy you've met is, the true love of your life, the one you'll end up with will be THAT one, the one from your hometown. Then whats the point of leaving the old town anyways? Whats the point of moving on and meeting new guys and dating? If you know who your gonna wnd up with, I mean, why was that all about? Even Jake says that in Sweet Home Alabama himself, "nobody finds their real soulmate when they'r ten years old, what's the fun about that, right?" RIGHT!
That why I LOVE Gossip Girl, and any similarity that may exist between Blair and I, or any girl in the world. She came in defense of those girls that do dream of a Prince Charmin as Disney though us that could be, Rich, Charming, Classy, Handsome bla bla bla.... I am not saying money is the most important thing in the world, and that you may never merry a poor guy, I am saying that some girls are just not going to be happy with someone that is not ambicious at all, no matter how much they love each other.
So Blair and Chuck had their agreement, they could have fun and move on, but marriage would be only between them, whenever they were merried... well, first: in real life, your true love will never really propose that to you, and if he does, jealous will drive him crazy, soon or later. In other words, this agreement does NOT work. It didnt even work with Blair.... but..... because of another reason: The Love she dreamed of, could have certain similarity to the one Chuck proposed to her, but her real fairy tale, the one she truly deserved was reserved with someone else, and both realized it.
Sometimes you are just tempted to believe that some of those splendid, crazy, and confuse drama histories could happen to you, that you forget how simple life could be. You lived one great love, you learned, you moved on. It doesnt mean you will forget the one you once truly loved, but sometimes you must just realize that, it was good, and it couldnt go on. Just save the memories as they are, cuz anyways, they do look amazing in your memorie, and save yourself from any strugling, or drama... at the end, this drama will end up any good sensations you've ever had when thinking of that lover.... and you will end up hating each other.
If life smiled to you, and brought you a Prince Charming, one that is so complete you dont even think you deserve, dont be stuck in your past, thinking you are a cheater if you do move on from your past true and only love. Dont be thinking that if you do get the chance to merry any other guy, taht one true love will be comming screaming into the church and stop the wedding, or even worse, dont you dare to think you'll regret if you do end up with someone else. Allow yourself to be happy, and distroy any pattern society, movies, or even your dramatic and complicated mind has created about your own story. Allow yourself to take chances, the one that life gives to you. Your life is not a movie, it is not a 1h45min decisions and solutions, it is not supposed to make you suffer or cry or struggle to get solutions or choices that have to deal with your happiness.... life has to do with taking chances, with fullfiling your dreams, with finding love and happiness.
So move on, from whatever it is that is holding you behind. Move on, and don't look back. Take new chances, look at same things in a new perspective, get time to know yourself in despite of any past though you may have found once. Delete any philosophy you may have written and re-write it all over again. Re-invent yourself, try to love again, dream on and don't be afraid if it does come up to be true. Hold it, and love it, but never think you belong somewhere or you own something, be free, and let everything else around you be free as well, allow life and destiny to give you all your dreams and stop controlling it...... Be ready and open to change.
The only way you can keep something is letting it free, and the only way you can make it last forever is not thinking about the future. Live each day, each beggining and middle of each story and play, without thinking about the end. At the end, isn't that what makes you keep reading a book or whatchin a movie? Not knowing what will happen? Well, then keep this excitement to your life too instead of making it boring and predictable. Stop making so many plan, and guessing what will the end be. Live each day, only.
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